May 30, 2011 1:06 pm Asalaam u alikum, The closest to what you are looking for: "Oh Allah, keep me alive until life is good for me and give me death when that is the better for me" [Bukhari, Muslim] I don't know the issue you are facing sister (since you said izat I am assuming you are a sister and not a brother, and from South Asian backgound)! Making dua - A Billion Reasons to Bellieve in Allah. | Facebook Lay not on us such a burden as Thou didst lay on those before us! It always hurts when we can't be with the one we love. I am obviously still shook by the incident but I Am doing better . 1. It's not natural for you to have these types of intense emotions about a close male friend just because he married. Or, even if a person has no rewards on their own merit, they may earn the rewards of others if they have been wronged by someone else, and that could affect your hereafter. Make it easy to find these options for sharing to extend your reach to friends and family of your visitors, and make your business grow. If you can, try to speak to your mum, or a school-teacher about how you are feeling, as they may be able to help you fix some of the problems you are facing and can comfort you. This status is something desirable may Allaah not deprive us of it and seeking it is something that is praiseworthy, because the one who is given it will not be deprived of the reward for righteous deeds for which a person may want to live and which may be better for a person than death. Al-Teebi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Time is like the capital of a businessman, and it should be invested in such a way as to make a profit. 59. pls help, im in danger feeling suicidal, i am a muslim and 18 yrs old,i have lost my parents and have an own elder brother and a step father,i am slapped and belted 4 no reason sometimes by my own brother, he tortures me ,i cannot approach my relatives as they will take advantage of the stuation and would also get me married, due to this torture i lost my mother 2yrs ago and have nobody now, my mother was my strength, i cant find a solution and this is endless and unpredictable, after my mothers death allah has protected me but i have no strenth now ,ive gathered lot of courage to write this, am higly ambitious want to become adoctor, but becoz whats happening at home i cannot concentrate, i have no hopes pls helppppp , m sick. Hence you are responsible for his murder., If someone is killed in the east and one who lives in the west is pleased upon this, then he is a partner in this murder.4. Maalik narrated that Saeed ibn al-Musayyab said: When Umar ibn al-Khattab came from Mina, he made his camel kneel at al-Abtah, and then he gathered a pile of small stones and cast his cloak over them and dropped to the ground. But All I can say is that I do this unwantedly or without purpose, Pranam and Salaam. Furthermore you do not want to risk your relationship with Allah and your life in the aakhirah. Remember, You never know what will happen after death. Now surely Allah's help is near. While I would not encourage suicide at any cost I cannot tell you the feeling will subside in one day. How can I post any question that I want to ask? This question has been answered. When making dua for all the Muslims around the world, don't just end it at "Allah help all the Muslims.". Salawat on the prophet's saw is a good place to start. Are you 100% sure about the future that if you become Muslim today then God will not help you find a Muslim husband far more better and loving superior then the one before? My flock is scattered. Also, it's possible you are depressed. hi. 30 in 2 months and utterly dead inside. I thought I have a hard luck. T you can contact me I'm here for you , cos no1 here cares to respond to my problems n help me! The following is a more detailed breakdown of the Sacred Law rulings of what is permissible and not permissible: 1. I started getting these thoughts that maybe it better to be dead. May Allah bless u. as salamualekum, You can learn more about how to make dua in our course: Call Upon Him. 6. what do you do when ur tired of life and cant do better than giving up on life? The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Performance". 67. it will mean u r hopeless of Allahs power ( anauz abillah) and Allah wants u to be courageous, he'll help Insha Allah. Wael reply to my comment too plz thankyou. (Quran 13: 11). I am an example infront of you. Du'a: Muslim Prayers For Healing Sickness - Learn Religions InShaAllah every thing will be fine soon. 57. Zafree, I posted your comment as a separate post: I am in the same situation, i want to die so bad , but i am also afraid that if my sins are forgiven or not , i repent and i will become so pious. He said, "The poor of the Muhajireen. Elsewhere the Prophet (saw) explained that these are the people who have nothing to be brought account for, and this is in addition to their jihaad and virtue. Is it permissible to pray for someone's death? [duplicate] This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. I am from Pakistan, I understand where you are coming from. Hadith on the death of loved ones. And there are thousand of thing we all need to do before we think about death. 853, al-Haakim said it is sahih according to the conditions of al-Bukhari and Muslim). she said she is not happy to be with them. I am also realizing this that may we do good to others but that doesn't mean that our life will turn out good. Performance cookies are used to understand and analyze the key performance indexes of the website which helps in delivering a better user experience for the visitors. The one who claims that someone other than Allaah is able to give life and cause death is a kaafir. Impose not on us that which we have not the strength to bear! it is easy tbeing angel but it is har d being a human. I am only 26 but it is very depressing as even quran reading and sujood has become difficult. . These cookies track visitors across websites and collect information to provide customized ads. then why would the good strive in the sake of Allah. Even I want to know is there any dua for asking death..please if so ..help..!! This life is your proving ground. Allahumdullilah, Allahumdullilah, Allahumdullilah for EVERYTHING, even for the problems. THIS WILL HELP YOU, I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU DO THESE AND STUART IMPROVING ONE DAY Our Lord! I have published your question as a separate post here: Aoa.i want to ask that my father is torturing me and my mother.he is not supporting me to start my own bussiness and also not allowing me to go to fforieng country so that i can earn some money for myself so that i can start my own life i am 30 yaers old and still not married.i am qualified engineer.and here in pakistan there is no job.arabs dosent give rights to muslim foriegners as i am born in arab and spend my life till 28 years in arab and didnt gave me nationality.please i also dont want to live as people in pakistan are frauds.so i am stuck. InshAllah we may be able to help you. What is upsetting you so much? My life is going worst. Please pray for me I can't commit suicide Plz tell me if there is dua I can pray every moment of my life. Sorry to hear what you are going through but suicide is never the answer to any problem instead it will only infuriate Allah (swt) as by committing this act we give up hope in the Almighty. Allah's decisions are always against my will. and now because my hands r full of failure I want to discuss my situation if u think there is a fix . You have to think as if you are in a hole and you need to climb out of it. McDonald's bet on viral success with its Grimace shake. TikTok users She is only nikkahfied and not and live with her parents till her education ends then she will be forced for rukhsati and all that. I have so much to thank Allah for but I refused to see all that. Ibn Umar heard a man wishing for death and he said: Do not wish for death, for you are going to die. Obey Allah and His Messenger, pray, fast, go to Hajj, and do good to others. Ask Allaah to keep you safe and sound, for the dying person is exposed to great terror.. 4- Make dua at the end of prayer. For example, if a man stole money from a woman and he vows to not return it to her, she can make dua against him for Allah Most High to take vengeance on him for this crime. How could I be so weak and ungrateful? May Allah (swt) make it easy for you and help you fight shaytan who is whispering these negative thought in your ears. The Status of a Job Acquired with False Certification. If you're not happy, then be proactive and start trying to change it. Die as you wish, die as a Jew or a Christian or as a Magian.2, A believer is free in the vast expanse of his belief till he colours his hands with the blood of a Mumin., One who kills a believer intentionally is deprived of the Tawfq of repenting (for his sins).3. Assalamualaikum, Assalamualaikum, Now pray to Allah Talah to bless you with the eternal love of your partner. A hadeeth to this effect has been narrated, but it is daeef (weak). People make mistakes and we should overlook their faults, just like we hope that they overlook ours. it really does feel like a test and i think its gonna come to an end soon in sha Allah. One day you will be ready to find a good, loyal woman. Cuz I don't want to live in this duniya any more m just 16 n m having soo many problems I even forgot how to smile ,every day m crying, m tried n I've give up, I don't want to live any more !! The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Other. Try take little step at a time. Cannot help but noticing that you asked for this advice twice.The nature of our great religion is that the more it is suppressed the stronger it becomes.Thats also true for people who are soft hearted like you( Allah Tabarakwataala knows better).If the feelig in you for helping others is strong enough than soon you will see that Inshaallah response from people would not matter you.You will also learn that : everything we do must be inorder to please only The Almighty.If one believes in this then he/ she can resolve the problem mentioned by you.Try helping others just for the sake of Allah Rabbil Izzat.Do not get attached with them, interms of their reaction.If the reaction is good ,accept it as a gracious favour from The Almighty and Thank Him for that.And if the reaction turns out to be bad: accept it as The Almighty's decision and ask for forgiveness from HIm.You should pray to Him asking for cleansing your heart off this depression you get.Remember some people are like leaders , they have amazing ability to get things moving in a circle by the way of their good heart and knowledge and bitter experience from their own past.Nothing can stop such people except their own depression.And thats how evil forces can turn table against you.For they know if you rise you can lift hundreds of others.So never ever allow depression to set in you. I want to live life in peace bit it doesn't work for me. In short, the dua to make someone talk to you is: "Ya Allah, please make so-and-so want to speak with me and ease their tongue when they do.". Say there is no god but God and Muhammad is the Messenger of God. Open up to them and ask them for help with coping with your feelings, and you can all support each other. In the massive fires, they're just too hot - you . Know that the life of this world is only play, and idle talk, and pageantry, and boasting among you, and rivalry in respect of wealth and children; as the likeness of vegetation after rain, whereof the growth is pleasing to the husbandman, but afterward it drieth up and thou seest it turning yellow then it becometh straw. Narated By Abu Huraira: Allah's Apostle said, "If Allah wants to do good to somebody, He afflicts him with trials." Now, raise your hands and make a dua. What can you not take anymore? Therefore, if this was not the case, then it is unlawful to make dua against the person, as well as hoping for bad things to happen to the person, his/her children, wealth, or the like. they supplicate. plan out things, InshaAllah you will see that the situation will increase for the better.So you can be POSITIVE and ATTACK or be NEGATIVE and MOOCH around! Am I allowed to make Dua against someone? Plz plz help me pray for my death or tell me a way. 3. So turn to Allah quickly in repentance for uttering such words, ask Him to make it easy for you to face these situations and to give you strength and say this du'aa which Allah commands the Prophet (peace be upon him) to say: 2. Be patient, do your prayers, and look for solutions to your problems. Ali, what are you saying? Is it permissible for a woman to observe the body of another woman as a beautician? So am planning to kill my self sonn. Well I tried to make u understand in a simple manner but I think other will be able to help u also, I want to ask a question I know I should have posted but i need an answer asap so plz sorry You could also consider going to stay with a friend, or staying in a shelter. inshaAllah you can find the solution too. Please please make a dua for me that everything goes back 100% to normal. When you have a problem, it is better to get it solved, than give up life. There is no cure except Your cure. Emir, read the comments already given, please. IF God is the most merciful and loving and forgiving then surely everyone's situation will be measured accordingly. I have realized deeply by heart and soul the following- His parents wont accept me because I am not Muslim, I chose my girl over Allah and am having a crisis of faith, Beaten and verbally abused all my life, now lost and hopeless, Father sexually abuses me, mother will not help, https://www.al-islam.org/greater-sins-volume-1-ayatullah-sayyid-abdul-husayn-dastghaib-shirazi/fifth-greater-sin-murder. IslamicAnswers.com Staff Photo Gallery. i reached to a point when i had wanted to commit suicide. In the mean time, go to your kitchen, lit your gas stove and try to put your hands on it. So is left for you to choose where you want to enter. These cookies help provide information on metrics the number of visitors, bounce rate, traffic source, etc. 22. Ask for everything you need. Take a glass of water and recite "Ya Wajidu" 1100 times and blow it on the water. Making Dua For Enemy To Die One of the worst and bad feelings which even melt your blood in hate and jealousy. i got into depression ( iam still affected with it somewhere) but butthen i came across this site and learnt many things like. And if the Truth had followed their desires, verily the heavens and the earth and whosoever is therein had been corrupted. if someone killed himself I think you'll find many of the articles to be very helpful, such as my most recent article: How to invite Allah's power and wisdom into your life, i cant tell any reason i hate this world so i want to die however it is haram to pray for death.oh allah do for me whats better keep me alive till i m happy and love the life. 61. 1) There are people who a lot worse that you. 1.Make peace with your past- so it wont screq up the present Any advice on how to stop this feeling will be highly appreciated. - are you ready to face Allah? He never makes me priority. He said: No, for youth and its evil have gone, and old age and its goodness have come. These cookies track visitors across websites and collect information to provide customized ads. Not really knowing what is going on it's very difficult to advise you to a solution, but we do have an article about suicide on this site that may address some of the things you are feeling and thinking right now. The lesson derived from this hadith is that there is no difference between the killer and those who support or co-operate with him. and He will grant them Jannah for obeying Him i love him too. Frankly speaking am a very simple man and very religious too..But am not sure why Allah elected that kind of girl in my life.She is bit elder than me and she is completely opposite to me.She never follows hijab.She discuss all the things of our nights with her friends.She just looking for my money.She don't want my parents and all.I am trying to chage her,but I can't.There are lot of things to tell,i don't know how to tell.I never show her the attitude that I am husband and u r wife like that.She never thinking to grab my heart.I am really very sad with my wife.I even not getting interest to touch her.since am looking for a best friend am not just looking for her body. You can be a great deal of help to other going through same crisis either posting their thoughts on site like these or through support group you may are of become part off. Get counseling, have a family meeting, talk to her and see what can be solvedor if you must, divorce her. And i wish to die cux my parents are worried to see me like that. It's always disappointing when our parents don't value us. This is how to make du'a: 1. ; Start by praising Allah (SWT) and sending blessings upon Prophet Muhammad (SAW). Plus she loves her mom too like me. Dont Compare your life to others- and dont judge them. Im in 10th grade and I feel depressed as I have little support from my friends and Im failing in school. Learn the Power of Dua: The Key to Making Someone Obey and Listen to You! 2) Life is a test. And furthermore, an action that would earn Allah's anger and punishment. At first she tries to take khula but her mom stop her by saying she will be bounded to court forever. For further research - click >>> https://www.al-islam.org/greater-sins-volume-1-ayatullah-sayyid-abdul-husayn-dastghaib-shirazi/fifth-greater-sin-murder, Almost all of the picture delivers the design of examining theatre. Please register and submit your question as a separate post and we will answer you in turn, Insha'Allah. We use cookies on IslamQA to measure visitor stats. The only option to end this suffering is death. Ameen. Our Lord! Imagine how different your life could be 5 years from now, even one year from now. Talk to Allah like you're having a conversation with Him. That is a coward's way out. ________________ 4. No one knows their eternal fate. I have lost all hopes, no sign of her coming back to me, nor her parents agree. People love me and leave me by saying that they don't want to marry because I am not slim. We also use third-party cookies that help us analyze and understand how you use this website. DESTROYING THE LITTLE FOXES (Part 2) By Apostle Johnson Suleman (Sun. I never gave up on struggle until now when its too late. This cookie is set by GDPR Cookie Consent plugin. Assess your life and look at what it is that you may be doing to contribute to your bad condition. I suggest that you move on and pray to Allah (swt) to bless you with peace because; now she is married to someone else and she is someone else's wife and honor. I'd also recommend speaking with your GP or family doctor, as they may be able to give you advice about counselling services and supports available for young people in distress. January 5, 2022 By Ustadha Maryam Amir I know sometimes you think it's unfair and you wonder why God isn't blessing you with the dua' you've been making when you've tried so hard and done things right for so long. 2. And I have a reason. Live your life. I by mistakely comited suicide now I regret for it .my is more worse after that incident .wat will I do nw I committed a great sin Aoa.. Praising Allah as He deserves. Everyone needs love but it's not a reason to take your life. Do not seek death. Read all the answers given, starting from the beginning. Condemn us not if we forget, or miss the mark! I want to die, any dua to die instead of suicide So when a person wants to help someone, its important to realise how the person's state of mind is and how he would react.Most importantly keep ourself detached from Him/ her's behaviour.Its a art you will learn it slowly if you endeavour. How can I ask to hasten my death when I know I am not prepared for aakhirat.. Every single time I just feel like getting the knife out and killing myself but then I remember hell and what punishment Allah pbuh would say to me. Method to perform: . Allah swt definetly knows what is best for us and surely he has better outcome of these pains. It's not a good idea to post that in public. 1. If you think now is bad, do you really want to the spend the rest of eternity in complete misery? when you pray 4 ur death it means u r losing hope, we have to be strong and should always be hopefull to allah, that is strong imaan. Need One to One live Counseling with Sheikh Assim? but what can ya do? I couuldn't express by my word. 7. An unanswered prayer is a part of every human's life. What if it becomes unreasonable, but I think that we want to now what if the thing has moved on or whatever? The cookie is used to store the user consent for the cookies in the category "Performance". She cry alot since she is in a situation that her family is not supporting her. In times of trials praise Allah coz it means He loves u so much coz his testing ur faith, and He will not give trial or problem without solution. You say it hurts your parents to see you sad, so you want to kill yourself to help them??? My heart is tourn prohibits the believers from suicide even in times of turmoil. Question / Help. He has given the mankind free will to choose btw good or bad. Please clear my doubts, i m very anxious to know please , Your parents love you a lot, yet they still punish you any duas to make me happy i feel down right now. End quote. Allah, i dont wanna give up this life but if things are like this then why should i live?.its better you take this back..give my soul to someone who deserve to be true servant.atleast i will not continue with more sins which ofcourse you dont like. Easier said than done, I understand but remember Allah will never burden his slave with what he cannot carry. When I get up, I say Bismillaah (in the name of Allaah), and when I sit I say Al-hamdu Lillaah (praise be to Allaah), and I would like this to continue. You had a choice to go forward into marriage with her or not. Duniya, which is made by and which is nothing for you. Perform ablution, again it's not wajib or obligatory on the worshipper however it's an adab or etiquette. I was in love (remainder of comment deleted by editor). Endure and by the will of Allah love will come to you begging. 8. They will come to you when you least expect it. and he will provide support and open ways for you Insha Allah! There is no difference between a foetus and a full-grown man. May peace and blessings be upon our Prophet, his family and Companions! "Verily Allah does not change any people's condition unless they change their inner selves." In scorn thereof. say (I seek refuge with Allaah from the accursed shaytaan). 5. I want to die I tired with my life!!! Talk to us here. How to make a proper dua for our family members that already - Quora Alhamdulillah, such situations are temporary tests, and that is why our lives and existences don't depend on them. I tried my best to become good and of course i wish to that.because I LOVE YOU ALLAH s.w.t and Rasool ( PBUH ). Masalaam. May Allah grant us success! May Allah aid you and relieve you. Pray to Allah and do not allow yourself a day when death would come and you would say : O Allah ! You gave me a life to live here..butwhat i did.ruined it.with lies..hateredbackbiting.cursingunlimited sins..gossips and many other wrong things which YOU do not like it. The greater the capital, the greater the profit. Have you done all the things which Allah command you??? Mina is now part of Makkah al-Mukarramah; The du'a of 'Umar (radiyallahu 'anhu) asking for martyrdom in Madinah Munawwarah; 1). 2. Can someone help me find a solution to my problem? Your life is a gift from Him. in sha allah though im confident Allah will take me soon. Is it allowed in islam in order not todo a suicide atempt? Find him! Freedom to express your love sentiments and emotions also works when you about . Ameen. I advise you to read the Qur'an for now, after reading it, if you wish to make du'aa for death it is up to you. This potrays ones love for the Holy Places, so its allowed Sayyiduna Umar radiallahu anhu used to say: Translation: O Allah! No soul can ever die except by Allah's leave and at a term appointed. Can I worship the Hindu god after I accept Islam? there will be many like us. If you choose to offer your salah prayers and do rightous good deeds ordained by Allah, then paradise/jannah is for you. I am writing this with tears in my eyes. There is a fixed term for death, so whether you seek to hasten it or try to delay it, death will come upon it's appointed time. Keep them on your tongue and they will ease your heart: 25 Duas from the Quran, I'm only a kid 11 years and I hate my life I get bullied second by second and high school is very hard. Keep yourself busy with hobbies that you enjoy, prayer, time with your friends, a good book, etc. I try to stop all the contacts with her but after some time she manages to contact me and she use to cry alot saying that their parents made her life hell y m i leaving her in that. I think its time to end my life, as I cant live without her. i was about to get married but this man whenever an argument happens he says i depress him and i dont make him happy and all.. usually it small things and so i have decided to end this marriage proposals and forget marriage exist and i dont want to start over and feel this pain again. Similary if u don't offer Salah than allah will also be angry, In office we u don't perform well , u try to add extra effort to do well so to earn respect in eye of your boss. I am in need of some help, some guidance lease oh please. I saw Prophets Moosa, Muhammad and Esaah (peace be upon them all) in my dream. O Allah, strengthen him. This is when your problems will begin. The amount of reward is in accordance with the amount of suffering. if your dua is accepted but you don't get what you want you can gain akhira credit. I can't tell y I want to die, plz you all pray for me I shud die as soon as possible. When Should We Stop Making Du'a For Something If It Isn't Being With regard to du'aa' after the salaam, what the Prophet used to do is to say, after finishing the prayer: Astghfir Allah, astaghfir Allah astaghfir Allah (I seek the forgiveness of Allah, I seek the forgiveness of Allah, I seek the forgiveness of Allah). Is making a dua that someone dies in a state of kufr or shirk wrong? I think im mentally ill, I literally cannot control temper and nearly killed my own sibling, my parents disowned me, i dont speak to anyone, i have no friends, connection with my siblings is gone, i have nothing. Think and feel happy to know that everyrhing that happens to you in this life bad and good are ridding you od your sins. What is the cutoff point? He expresses deep disappointment in them, and he says that "Suicide is a permanent approach to a temporary problem.". Will you take your life against Allah's Will? Thanx 4 all 3 of u 4 responding me in such a detail. Can I make dua against someone who hurt me? Powerful Dua To Destroy Enemy Immediately 1.2. This website uses cookies to improve your experience while you navigate through the website. (Related by Muslim), i pray allah makes you stronger in your faith and inshallah my reply helped in someway. For example, a mother making dua against her own children out of her uncontrolled anger is unlawful. You want everything for yourself. If you can't bear to see your mother suffering now than how much pain and suffering she will have to bear if you commit suicide astaghfirullah. When we find a way to submit to what HE likes for us and let go of our own nafsani wishes and goals, we can find peace and contentment no matter how bad it gets in shaa Allah. Everyone says talking to someone will help but it doesn't. Do not speak to her, email her, text her, or look at her Facebook page.
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